As for what you see in your H's eyes...we had a family picture taken a couple of years ago and my H looked very happy! He was smiling and had his arm around me (he doesn't smile often in pics) and then I found that "must have missed it, left behind pic in my truck of him and OW) and I thought he looked really happy...HB said it was because I was too close to the sitch and would not be able to read his eyes.
I know that you have been divorced bor 2 yrs now but you are obviously detached and are able to "see" that your H is not happy. Unfortunately, he may live the rest of his life that way but by his choice!
You will know when it is time to move on! You are doing awesome and am glad you came back to DB to offer your support!
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