Do you mean about when SHE was molested as a child ? Or do you mean the abuse at the hands of the EX ?
If you mean her childhood, obviously I didnt witness any of it, only heard it through her side of the family, including a younger female cousin she was pretty close with who accused the same relative of the same acts. I do remember going as far as contacting the Detectives that handled " cold cases" in the jurisdiction where it happend back in 2004 or so and they did in fact have a case file on something that met the proper names and time frames, but without her explicit permission there wasnt anything they could do to re open it. Seems half the family believes it did in fact happen and the other half doesnt.
If your talking about her EX , then that would have been strictly coming from her , her mother , her aunt and uncle that she lived with awhile t escape him (and her Uncle is definetly a straight shooter), etc. Plus my knowledge of her utter hatred of him for several years in the beginning.
Keep in mind , she DIDNT " keep in contact with the EX" other then to discuss issues with their kids and even that was RARE since he didnt have custody either. I mentioned a couple posts back he was TOTALLY out of the picture , living no where near us, in his own little world, doing his own little things for the vast majority of our almost 14 year relationship. This renewed contact with him has only come about within the last couple months Im CERTAIN and probably wouldnt have fazed her in the least if we werent already experiencing problems.
He pursued her for at least the first two to three years of our relationship regularly, only to be turned down cold every time.Like any predator will, he smelled blood and vulnerability from the wounds I inflicted and moved in for the kill and seemingly succeeded, at least for now.
