No longer "stuck808". Now my name is Bond. "MrBond

[MrBond]

sandi,

Good idea. I think I called her out on that behavior last week. I told her that the only reason we've been able to get along is that I've been putting in the effort. And I gave her examples as to what she does that's disrespectful but I've been ignoring them. I asked her if I did...etc. to her, would she think it was rude. She said "yes" and so I told her that's what she's been doing.

I definitely didn't want to push the pursuing with what I said last night, but I figured I'll do it to test the waters and see her reaction.

While she accepts the invitations, it's not like she's enthusiastic about them. Heck I don't think I've seen her enthusiastic about anything for a long time. It's almost like she has a happiness ceiling that once she hits it, she can't show any emotion or go beyond it.

Is this how it was for you when you felt depressed?