Hi...hey what the heck...go..but go with a great frame of mind and spread the holiday cheer!!!I donb't know the whole story with th IL...but if your h did not want you there, he would never have mentioned it. My h told me he has been waiting for an "invitation" to spend Christmas with me..go figure..from a guy who seems to think a d is our next step...and the fact that your h admitted to MLC...oh my gosh..sounds like a first around here..

Remember you have choices that only you can make...do what makes you happy and what your gut tells you is right for your m..and by all means ENJOY this season of hope and miracles!!

Sue