I can act as if, I've been doing that for years, when the better part of my brain is functioning. I think it will be awkward as they haven't called or contacted me since H told them, except for a thank you for the fudge I made at T-day. They also told H they have been watching us this past year and sometimes we click and sometimes we don't. I don't know what they know as far as if it was a mutual thing, if I kicked him out or if he left me. I suspect they don't know much. I just think sitting there all day with them watching if we click would be really weird. I'd be happy if the rest of my life H always did the his side of the family thing without me, but I suspect that is not a pratical hope. However, I think it would send a strong message to H if I'm willing to do this without an iota of complaining. Also, I guess it would be a hurdle that was jumped towards our reconciliation.

They have never been able to figure me out, I think, and this would be just one more occasion to baffle them. Why is she being so nice if he walked out on her?

I think I'm talking myself into going. Anyone have some good reasons why I can stay home?

Jackie