About the abuse issue. Have you ever seen anything that showed that or is it just something she told you? It seems odd that she would still stay in contact with someone over the course of your R that she was in an abusive R with.
Not saying that it didn't happen, but we've seen it many times on the board here where the spouses accuse something that isn't true or isn't to the extent of their accusations.
I know your child is very young. Was the child planned or was it something that "just happened". Something might have triggered in her as a result of that pregnancy.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
