I've got my email drafted up that is 30% like my first draft and 70% like my second. I am planning on sending it out tomorrow around 10ish. (It's so funny how planned I have it!)
But very wise of you!!! Careful planning and strategic moves may just be your secret to saving your marriage!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004