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The in-laws didn't have as much impact as you might think. Some. The OW. There was one, kind of. Most of it was in his imagination. She tried very hard to make it work. Really. She's a great lady and didn't deserve what he gave her. In the end, he moved out. Pursued the other woman. She gave him a choice. He took the other woman.

sigh.
this is not helping me. OW, huh?
yeah, h would take the OW too.

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It isn't fair what he is doing. His lies. His trying to cause pain. His pettiness. It just isn't fair. But it is an opportunity for you when you are ready to see it.

sometimes i just want to wait until the elevator opens, when he walks out and just line up the crosshairs with his forehead...

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And remember that you have to work on you before you can work on anything else. Really. And you're worth it!

i ended my weekend on a low note.
not sure if i'm worth it.
but i'm going to try and keep things under control.