Ok I know I am going to get flamed. I promise that I'm not trying to defend myself. I completely understand the statement and it makes sense. My worry is that my WAH is extremely literal - it's very odd. And so my fear is that even though I have made it clear that I am open to a reconciliation and workign on our marriage that if I do anything to make him think otherwise he will take that as I've changed my mind.
I would like to word it more softly. I dont think I need to be "nice" but he is extremely sensitive. I promise he will read that as me being mean. Granted, he shouldn't be doing what he did but I'd like to be the bigger person.
