Quote: He also admitted to her that he is in the midst of a MLC.
OMG...he admitted to this? This is great I think. There are times when I see the logical side of my H if he realizes what he's going through.
Quote: Another thing that came up and I would love opinions on, is Christmas with his parents. The Sunday before Christmas H is taking the kids down to see his folks. H says I'm invited. His parents have not said anything to me, the invite was relayed through him. It would be horrible and awkward, but would it send a good message to H? Don't ask me what I want, I'd love to never have to deal with the IL issue again, but I'm looking at the big picture. I also don't want to ask H, "do you want me there?" I think that is a wimpy way out of it and I should make the decision on my own. So what does your gut tell you? Do I stay or do I go? Do I break into the 80s song?
Go with your gut feeling on this Jackie. It's what I would do, my gut feeling is always the right thing for me. Why would it be horrible and awkward with his parents? Maybe I should have asked that first as I might not be seeing the WHOLE picture.
