Yes, I think his tax records will show the picture of a pretty consistent pattern of income. I don't think there's anything I can do about his current earning choices. Right now he's trying to maximize his earning to pay off our debt but once that's more under control he'll be wanting to slack off.
I'm not totally clear how things work with my L. I asked her a question by email and got no response, so I probably have to do more homework so that I am set up to get help from her.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
