Sorry sandi but with all due respect , I havent practiced religion for 20 YEARS !
I'm just saying what we talked about in your other thread. You were the one who brought up about God, ending the pain, suffering, etc. You even said you had much "pride" in your kids and your "beautiful wife" by your side.
I have been telling you that having more than one thread running at the same time is hard to keep track, so I know I missed the part about you not being M, but I was mostly reading the other thread.
Anyway, I don't think this has so much to do with the bad character of the OM, but what kind of character you have. You do not have to be religious in order to have honor, and you sure didn't honor anyone that you love by living out of wedlock and having two children.
Have you even thought about what you would tell your children? Are you going to explain to them what a bad person the OM was? Somehow I don't think that will be enough. Just remember what goes around....comes around.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
