Newmama, just saw your other post. That is a really great idea. I seriously think I would be in the looney bin if it wasn't for this place. It's like I have no barring and this forum gives me some sort of control so I don't go off the deep end.
Here is what I was thinking. I would send in an email:
"Hi WAH,
Good morning! I just wanted to let you know that I have moved my paycheck so it goes into a seperate account. The $xxxx will still transfer into the joint billing account every two weeks but the remaining portion of the money will stay in my account. I thought it would be easier for us both to help keep everything straight; we can always move it back at a later time.
Thanks, anned
I dont know about the above either. I really want to say "Listen [censored]. Why can't you just wake up? What happened to the man I loved? Where did you go? I love you so much and care about you and I feel like you are throwing your life away and don't care about anyone but yourself. I've given you everything. I'm not a doormat. I'm switching my account because you are so unpredictable and I don't trust you."
Yeah, that probably would not be good. I keep trying to tell myself that no matter what happens I want to be able to hold my head up. I think its better that I freak out on here than call my WAH irrationally screaming at him or something.
