Good point about WH avoiding family because they have 'dropped' him. My ILs haven't dropped him exactly, but they definitely don't approve. And I bet he does sense that. He totally avoids them-- I wasn't at the Friday graduation! So he wasn't avoiding me. He was totally being rude to them. (I was glad that they felt the insane alienness directly!) And, yes, WH is relying on his family to pick up his pieces. And at least SIL is getting resentful about it! (Not anything against me, just anger against him.)
My NC period was more like two months, ha! It was only in the last month that we had more positive interactions. So... I don't know if I can call it working or not because he said from the very beginning he wanted us to be "friends." He wanted us to stay best friends. Just not married. And with him not having a baby. Soooo, he still hasn't budged from that.
I'll be 38 weeks on Friday. Due date is June 14. Hoping she arrives a tad early, like the 11th. Pretty excited, pretty freaked out, I don't know, it's weird. Are you 5 weeks behind me or less than that? What are you feeling?
I've got my email drafted up that is 30% like my first draft and 70% like my second. I am planning on sending it out tomorrow around 10ish. (It's so funny how planned I have it!) We shall see how he responds. I address the first meeting and her name. oh, and I'll have someone contact him after she's born.
