Personally I don't think it was the fact that you weren't M that's the issue. It's the fact that your W was still M. I understand the whole being in love bit, but I guess it's a little hard to understand how you could be introduced as her "husband" when she was still married to someone else.
But that's just me.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
