Anne, I just saw your post and have to tell you that I don't feel confident about the suggested wording I gave you--you should spend time figuring out a carefully crafted reason for splitting the money that shows setting a boundary but also won't push him too far....draft it here! hopefully someone else will post to you about it, too!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
