My Husband Just Left Me

[newmama]

About calling his mom- DON'T at this point. She won't be able to do anything and it will just piss him off!

I really think it is powerful if you make the change and inform him (to be respectful). You won't be asking, you will be saying it matter of factly- something like

"Just to let you know, I am switching some money over to an individual account while we are working things out. If you want to move out, then I think it is only fair "

1) it shows you are not desperate and won't be walked all over
2) it shows confidence with setting a boundary and men (women too! ) respect that


You might want to read the book Why Men Marry B!tches- B!tch stands for Babe In Total Control Of Herself. I need to re-read it! But in the last month am finally finding my old inner B!TCH!

And I get that there is a delicate dance you must do right now- some moves may propel him to finalize the D and others can help to stall. But you don't need to get financially screwed in this process!!!!