Yes, the exclusionary feelings can be hard to deal with sometimes. But I am good at sinking into hobbies, reading, etc. She never replied to me asking to see a new MC. I don't really know why. Perhaps she's not ready. Perhaps she just wants to coast along for now at her own pace. I have no idea. She's not forcing any issues such as S or anything at the moment. She knows how dedicated I am to the family and deep down she needs my help.
We too go to her parents house for lunch on Sundays. I am fine around her family and they know the score. She has completely cut herself off from my family, tho she will ask how people are doing. She claims it's too uncomfortable to be around them right now.
I seriously believe my W can't handle to workload and stress of dealing with two boys all day long. I think she needs a mild dose of Prozac or something to take the edge off b/c when it gets stressful (i.e. the boys are screaming or crying or something), you can see her blood pressure rise and she will lash out at me.
There is no OM. You can read my original posts, but the short of it is that, especially since the kids were born, we have lived more and more emotionally distant from each other and what issues there were before kids were only magnified.
There is no cheating, drugs, abuse, etc. She let her feelings and perceptions win without confronting them. She feels that I don't care about her and I put myself first. She has been hurt and she is not letting me back in right now.
