Thank you newmama. Is this something I need to say to my WAH or should I just seperate them?
I called my bank and I'm able to remove him if I want.
Also, as I said. I dont think he is trying to move large sums of money. He is basically taking money and gambling and drinking with it. I believe he will put it back - he makes a lot of cash from his job but I'm upset because I feel like he should be having a more difficult time.
I think that's where I'm having trouble. DB coach is telling me one thing and I want to do that but I kind of feel like WAH is using joint assets to go out and have a good time. Basically, borrowing "credit" from our own money.
Is it appropriate to confront him? I have not contacted him and all and don't plan to do so unless absolutely necessary.
I am sorry to everyone for all the posts. Today was good until all this and then I just lost it and had a really bad hour of crying and freaking out.
Also, I can go onto our cell phone records and see who he is calling and I blocked my number and called them and tey were women. He also used a calling card. I'm wondering if he went to see a prositute. As I also said I can track his phone and the area he was in is where a lot of people gamble.
