Sorry sandi but with all due respect , I havent practiced religion for 20 YEARS ! Mostly due to the fact that I have a REALLY hard time respecting or supporting an organization that played " Hide a Child Molester " for decades and actively participated in perpetuating one of the most evil acts I can think of, against the most innocent and helpless of victms.
Im just now rediscovering things in a new light then what I remember from twenty years ago. So you'll forgive me if Im not about to apologize for " living in sin " with someone I was deeply in love with. All three of the kids ( her two and our one , my son is only 7 mos old) were NEVER lied to. They knew us as Mom and Dad. The older two certainly knew they would be included in the wedding that will never be, but with all due respect your reply feels a bit harsher then necessary.
Im not about to go hunting the other threads to confirm it, but I strongly disagree that I mislead ANYONE here, I state more then once we werent married. Unless your talking about some alleged inappropriate use of the WAW thing. Which all things being considered I always did and still do consider her that way in practice if not by law.
