anne,

you have to calm down and stop opening so many threads. No one is going to be able to read your whole sitch if you keep bouncing around.

Second thing you need to do is "calm down".

Right now you are assuming he's doing all these things. He may not be. Go out for a walk or something and start thinking with a cool head.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER