"I was the one who wanted to leave at that time. I went out looking at apartments and small rental homes. I went to the four best family law lawyers in town and had consultations with them so that he would be conflicted out and would not be able to retain them. (I've worked in law firms as a paralegal for over 25 years, so I am familiar with the legal system).
He saw that I was serious about leaving and I suppose he actually gave half a crap about it, so he agreed to attend a counseling session with me - as long as I paid for it."
Am I wrong or did you not write that you had wanted to leave?
Look I understand you're hurting. I can hear you. Heck like I said we all are/were. I understand what you are going through. My W had an A with her boss twice her age and blamed me for it. I know what confusion/hurt/betrayal, etc. are.
You've got to calm down and collect your thoughts. If you don't, you will not be able to bust this D.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
