You aren't ahhh...suggesting that YOU tell the girlfriend about it are you? Or address her in anyway, right?

That is generally a bad idea.

You attack the OW and the MLCer...or WAS defends them, it is that simple. You attack, you lose. It might feel good...right up until they both make you into the crazy biotch bad guy.

AND...to an outsider...the LBSer that does confront...does look like the crazy person. We do..sad to say, but we do.

PS - : ) Thanks Walking.

Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 05/24/10 11:56 PM.


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