I still need advice on the anniversary question above, but have another question:

My inlaws and I are planning to go on a weeks vacation this summer. I'm near dark/pretty dim w H. If he doesn't get invited he'll be hurt (understandably). But I'm not supposed to be extending any invitations to him. Is there a way to suggest he go w/o it being detrimental to his MLC process?

ALL ADVICE APPRECIATED as I sure don't know what to do with this one.


M--14 years
T--20 years, HS sweethearts
dday #1--2002 EA
dday #2--2005 bar sl*t
dday #3/4--Feb 2010 texting/cell/physical/who knows what
Shortly after found out he had been injecting steroids for 2 years