Now I'm having slight panic. I know I need to be patient but I just obsess over things.
I usually work from home but on Thursdays I go into the office. I'm wondering if WAH is planning to get his things when I am at work. This bothers me - probably because I will miss an opportunity to interact with him.
Today, on the phone session Laurie said I should focus on stalling him because he is in high gear to get this over with.
She also said that I should keep things the way they are with teh finances. Yesterday, he said he would just keep paying the bills, etc with our money that was deposited in there (both of ours). However, today I looked at the account and he had spend $60 at the bar last night. I obviously am not going to say anythign but I almost want to move my money to a different account so he can't spend my money to go party... I didn't think at the time to mention this to Laurie. But now I'm confused. She is telling me not to really change anythign (let him initiate) other wise he might get the impression that I am okay with this happening (he is extremely literal). That I understand but what happens we he starts using money I also need to use for partying, etc? It's just frustrating. I
Also, I recieved an email today from a friend of his (doesnt know we are seperated). The email was to my husband but he didnt have my husbands email address. Do I just ignore it, forward email to husband or email friend and say "Hey so and so, you can reach H at fdsjl@fdjslfds.com"?
