I don't believe a T would actually say you are an unhappy person, when you weren't even there. Was H projecting himself?? What T would be talking about you. T should focus on H. Doesn't she know that we can only control ourselves??
I've never sensed you were unhappy with your life. Even when I met you. What???? Are you unhappy other than with your present R?? Don't let someone else tell you what to believe and who you are!!! nik