Could be anything for all I know. She did say to me last week when I first questioned her about why she was at his place that our sitch had made her realize that she had somethings to say to him that needed saying about their relationship. Sounded reasonable at the time. Suffice to say she has been lying to EVERYONE. Telling EVERONE she has her own place.
I was talking with my neighbor today , who has a degree in psychology and also a deep faith and has acted as a sounding board for each of us as individuals. I told her what I had learned and she was STUNNED and seemingly a little hurt that my WAW had created such an elaborate fabrication. Then she reminded me of another incident from last week when my WAW took just my daughter overnight to " her place " ( sarcascm) and spent the next day with her. The neighbor commented on how elaborately my WAW had told her about all the stuff that needed to be done , turned on , cleaned , heck she even invented names for her new neighbors ! ( or for all I know their the real neighborsof her ex.
When I came back home I gently and nonchalantly mentioned this other earlier occasionto my daughter and she confirmed that was at the Ex Abusers house also !
