You will feel like this for a long time.I spoke to my neighbour today who had bomb drop just over two weeks ago.I could feel that pain aura all around her.She has her seperation agreement signed already.God I am struggling with it 10months down the line.I think it must be hard to start living again but she will get her day. My counsellor was telling me today that her dad had a secret life with an OW for years and he had 2 kids with her. She was devestated when she found out and angry at her mum for not telling her.She tried to tell him how it was all wrong but he wouldnt listen. Anyway he takes really unwell as all the pressure builds up and the illness causes deafness...She is convinced it was Gods way of punishing him for not listening. I am sure Lees there is a medical reason but god works in mysterious ways and your W and the Ow will reap what they sow. Have you seen the new forum on midlife crisis marriage advocate.com? Rollercoaster rider has started it and all the vets are there already.
ME 44 H 45 D 14 D 20 M 22 YEARS TOGETHER 28YEARS Bomb Drop 14th July 09 Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09) MLC 3years
Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith