And, just to throw in my 2 cents. Her attny very well might have advised her to delay. Attny's know the very low rate of reconciliation that sticks and he/she very well might have advised your W to proceed with caution. Not to mention if things don't work out she will have to start proceedings all over again (costly).
You know, that occurred to me too. I can totally see that. I called my atty and told him I agree to a delay. I'll see what my W says about it when we talk again.
