I don't see a problem with a "delay" per se; the problem is, that I'd really like to see your wife NOT get what she wants here, to see if she'd still relate affectionately and respectfully towards you.
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She wants to know that what she is experiencing is real. It's a safety net for her. Give her a little time and space. Be calm, strong and cool enough not to let it bother you.
Well, I did take an absolute stand against her Saturday night, I made it clear I wasn't giving her what she wanted, and the result was very positive. She was very respectful and affectionate all night.
I think she's recoiled back a little from everything, and truthfully, so have I. It was an intense night. A little voice in my head is saying "What are you doing? Do you really want to do this? Remember how bad your M was. Do you want to go back to that? Do you want to risk opening the wounds her A caused?"
She said the thing I did that really blew her away was NOT reacting and counter-attacking when she brought the suit in the first place, and I believe her. I need to sit tight for now.
