Okay, first things first. Protect yourself from his outbursts as best as possible. Remember that it isn't about you. It's all about him and he sees you as his worst possible enemy.
Were the two of you M before? Are you sure there's no OW right now? It sounds like his defensiveness and anger is hiding an OW in the background. Also the speed at which he is pushing for things, suggests this also.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
