Legally and technically nothing. She was still M. Out of curiosity, I understand you were waiting for her to finish the D, but don't you think 14 years was a bit long. Did you ever think that maybe she would go back to her H?

Yes you say he was abusive, etc. But wouldn't she have ended it sooner if it was? Personally, I don't think she dealt with all her issues from her past R, went out with you in her state of confusion, things got comfortable and she just got lazy.

Because they are still legally married, there are alot of obligations that they are still responsible for between the two of them.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER