WAW gets pregnant at 16 by boyfriend. Family offers ultimatum which results in shotgun wedding with a justice of the peace. Boyfriend, now husband is verbally and physically abusive to WAW. She leaves and moves back home. As a result of all the tension , she has the kids VERY premature, with numerous medical issues as a result. HIS Mother gets bent out of shape one day when she is denied a visit because WAW wants to sleep after being up all night with two preemies.
MIL calls an old school friend who is a DYFS case worker and reports WAW for "improper parenting" case worker arrives, states one child is being removed, WAW freaks ( she was only 16 years old after all ) and bolts out the door with other twin, only making things worse. This of course results in second child being taken away and temp custody being awarded to the MIL. MIL then proceeds to use children as a psychological weapon against WAW.
We meet by chance the same year, but nothing really comes of it for another year for a variety of reasons. We finally reconnect in late Summer 96 and eventually move in together that winter. Abusive Husband bounces around between pursuit of her and fliting all over the place, basically an absentee Dad from the twins lives for the bulk of the time. Fast forward almost 14 years later and......................
Suddenly in the last couple months, he's started re inserting himself into the twins lives ( now 15 ) and Im guessing now she's been talking to him or he sniffed out her vulnerable state or ?????? Who the hell knows. NO ONE will believe or understand her motives for running back to this guy after their history and so much time. Heck he was just arrested about a year ago for domestic violence in a fight with his sister in front of the twins ! One of them called ME crying about it! So HE was physically and verbally abusive to MY WAW when they were together, HIS Mother was mentally abusive to my WAW and apparently he stll has an anger managment problem
