I really do suck at the validating, I get so caught up in defend me mode I forget all about it. I know I got some info in the conversation, I just don't know what to do with it or how to proceed at this point. But, I guess sending him an email and listing all the ways that I think he has been a bad husband in the last year won't get me anywhere?
I'm still so irked with how he answered the phone, it is exactly how he answered the cell phone when the mysterious caller called. I need to get over that, I know, but I'm also tempted to bring that out in the open.
I am resisting all impulses to send an email or pick up the phone at this time.
