DESPERATE FOR HOPE AND UNDERSTANDING

[Coach]

Then I noticed the next day about 5 more txts in which she was asking me to come home and help

and talk openly about how I have hurt her by neglecting our R. She made it pretty clear that before she could work on our M she first had to work on herself. But with two twin 2 year olds, she has almost no time to do that. This is when I started wondering to myself, "How would a S make anything easier for her? It would only make it harder." I got a message that she was overwhelmed by raising two kids and had no time for herself. We discussed ways to change that

I sent her a message for the second time in a week today asking her to visit a "neutral" MC with me. That was almost 2 hours ago. She didn't reply to the first one and she's doing the same again. She has me very confused and I can't figure out what she wants from me?

She wants your support, your attention and your love.

Stop trying to fix her by asking her to go to a "neutral" MC.

Become aware of how your wife wants to be loved. Really listen. Be the leader of your family.