Ive never posted here-just been reading. Im confused about the not moving his stuff out. My WAH is couch-surfing and left most everything here. On week 5, I moved his stuff into the garage. I felt that if he wanted to leave, I couldnt be here holding everything together for him. That I had to show him I am moving on and letting him go-like he asked. I DO NOT want a divorce, he knows this, I did all the pleading before he actually left and now I am DB'ing. I do not think he has filed anything. There is presumably another woman (a "friend"). There have always been EA's and inappropriate exchanges with women. He medicates with alcohol and excitement with women. I was told I was crazy and jealous and now I know I was right. Did therapy, he will not address his personal and childhood issues (denial). He had no male role model in his life.I see therapist privately now, she says he has sexual/love addiction. Kids devastated, me too. We get along great, have great connection but there is something broken in him. I have ralized my part in it, have told him and apologized. He has not admitted his part. He is an avoider and runs from his problems ??