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The first time had more to do with the abusive realtionship tha developed with her MIL.


So are you saying that the MIL was the abusive one?

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think Im just still completely STUNNED that she's actually choosing an abusive ex


I'm so confused! confused

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!