turns out I have strep/tonsilitis:( Too much pain in my throat to eat and even drinking is difficult.
stbxw called me in the morning for the last 2 days to check in on me and see if I needed anymore food or drinks. I thanked her many times over the last few days. When she called this morning I thanked her for checking on me and she let out a giggle or laugh. I did'nt have the energy to ask what that's about.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
Yes, it was nice. I noticed today that she had also bought frozen pot-pies and macaroni and cheese. I was looking to see if I had any ice cream and those were in there.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
LOL! She did my dishes. cooked soup, took my temp, and said she would call to check on me later. i feel horrible from this flu, goodnight!
Wow v1olin, this is so similar to something that happened to me a few months ago. The kids and I were all sick with the flu. My W jumped at the chance to come over and play Mom again. She brought us all food, she did laundry, she doded on us all for several hours. It was the longest she had been in the house since she left a year earlier.
Your W isn't nearly as certain of what she wants any more. Perhaps because she sees it all slipping away now.
I don't know Future. This is the first time I have been sick at all since the bomb. She has had the flu, surgery, and a bad cold. Maybe this was just her chance to pay it back a little bit? I did go and take care of her and the kids during those rough times of hers and I figure she is just trying to remain friendly.
She still has no problem at all with telling everyone that we are divorcing and she still seems upset with the fact that her lawyer is not getting it finalized. I don't think that there is an OM either the original or some other OM. I am a little cautious with having any hope for my sitch anymore.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
I hear you v1olin. Hope is a dangerous thing. Stay detaching and keep moving forward with your life. I was so struck by the similarity though.
From what I've seen, the WAW brain is so self centered that if they don't want to do something, no amount of guilt or perceived obligation is going to make them. Think about what she already did. She completely walked away from your M, and made you split time with your children. That's big time stuff. Why would she feel so compelled to reciprocate this little illness thing?
