I do like the interactions of the last 72 hours. So long as OIN has an intel system in place, I'm not disinclined to give it some more time, SO LONG AS he calls her on any rude or disrespectful behavior.
Puppy
Agree, some of our serious and probing interactions are too close up on one another. Perhaps space them out, and maybe even go an entire week without worrying about the "problem". Perhaps have fun yourself, and just maybe the wayward spouse might be wondering what the hell is OIN doing thats just so much fun.
He's giving her too much concentrated and dedicated attention today. We're all guilty of doing it, its how we know.
