For those that are not familiar with my sitch, my D13 hates mom for all the messed up stuff she has done but mostly the lying. D13 has not talked to mom since Jan 3rd. D13 is done with therapy last week and actually doing great. Her therapist said she moved through the stages of greiving at the speed of light.

Last night D13 were talking late and I was trying to explain "forgiveness" and "compassion" for her mom. I think D13 got it.....She texted her mom last night, just some small talk. D13 wanted me to read the texts, I declined. I told D13 that what she talks about with my W is between them, I am not going to make that mistake again.

I hope they reconnect, my D13 desperately misses her mom but would never admit it. I just hope my W doesn't screw up and lie to my D13 again. D13 wanted to ask mom some pretty hard hitting tough questions last night. I convinced my D13 to start out slow.

I don't know how this will affect things between my W and I but if my D13 and her reconcile then my W will be able to come out to the house more often. That would make that "road back" a little easier to travel.


Formerly "missherlove"

Me49 XW49
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.

~Jim Morrison