It HURTS so bad, desperately need re assurance

[BeingMe]

I think that is if the married couple still live together. The baby from an A is legally the H's if it has his name and they are still living as a couple. I could, of course, be wrong.

Perhaps there is a way for you to legally have full custody of the children, if your W signs them over. She's done it before. Look if you can find a "do-it-yourself" separation and custody document. Find a way to convince her to do so. If she wants to endanger herself, then that's her prerogative, but that doesn't mean she should endanger the children. Be careful about stating how much more money you make than her ---- it could just mean that you would have to pay more child support if she gets the custody (although, if this goes to court, legally you would be bound to declare all your earnings as well as she would). Check into that first, I would say. Try getting them signed over before going the court route.

Take care.