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I would LOVE to hear the novel legal theory that my children are actually HIS, since our first wasnt born till 8 years after she left him and our son was born just last fall, more then 12 years after she left him.


Doesn't matter how long they had been S, if children were born....and she was legally M to him, in some places they would be seen as legally his. But IDK since you are named as the father on the BC....probably nothing to sweat.

I do have a question. Why on earth would you have two children with a woman who was M to another man?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!