WAW is tearing me apart inside

[mza8]

Freedom she always had w me. I was the one asking her when she was going to go out w her friends or just take time for herself...wierd isn't it?!

Hopeful, I read your sitch and I can relate to this comment. It is weird. I also encouraged my W to go out with her friends and do things for herself. Sometimes she would and sometimes she wouldn't. She was upset with me for not going out with my friends. Then she tells me that I smother her. Yes, weird. Anyway, just wanted to let you know you're not alone.

I geuss the question is how long do you stay dark? It will be 5 months separated in a few weeks...

Not sure what the answer is...I wish I knew. My W has been mostly dark with me since she left 7 months ago. She still hasn't talked to me about M yet.

Anyway, just wanted to offer you support. The people here are great and offer great advice.