I actually didn't bring those up. I am going to do with what people had said and go if I want to go I think.
I'm not going to do the BBQ - I cancelled it last night. I just can't handle it right now.
But as far as the weddings - I will have another phone session before June 12. I will ask her then what she suggests. My current plan is to attend, buy a gift on my own. I haven't said anthing to H abou it yet.
I really enjoyed the phone session. It was kind of odd because some of the things I thought were good to do she didn't agere with. For instance, I thought I should take him off my insurance because I kind of feel ilke it's his bed and he should lie in it but she said that will probably push him away which was not a perspective I had heard before. I'm just concerned about getting walked all over but I'm going to try it for now.
