Sounds good! You have a plan to follow now. Stay with it until it's or part of it is not working. At least, you are trying to save your M, and as Dr. Phil says, one should do so until you can walk away with no hard feelings and with peace (or words to those affect).
Did she address any of the social questions you had, such as attending weddings and the bbq?
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
