I have NEVER heard of such a thing as that sandi. Both kids legally have my last name and I am named as the father on the birth certificate's. Not to mention I would LOVE to hear the novel legal theory that my children are actually HIS, since our first wasnt born till 8 years after she left him and our son was born just last fall, more then 12 years after she left him.

I've been on the phone with a slew of attorney's consulting about this today and not one of the has expressed the concern you have raised.