Yes your correct, they never legally divorced. TBHI really dont know why , but it never really was an issue for us, because we always said it was something she would take care of when we were finally ready to get married.
Whoa! You two were never legally M? Then, does that mean the children born to her are legally his? I thought whoever the woman was legally M to....her H was the "legal" parent of the children. But, IDK if that's the law where you live or not.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
