W and I had lunch at the house, pleasant interaction although she was short on words, but not "down".
She is meeting with a pastor and the women's counselor on Wednesday to talk through the situation. This is the same pastor I had a phone conversation with last week.
I was going to deliver the "Drop OM and go to MC or file" message today, but decided to hold off until after I hear the outcome of her Wednesday meeting. She hasn't said anything more about what she is doing with her apartment lease that comes up at the end of the month. I have a feeling she is going to go month to month on the lease or she likely would have said something about signing a longer term agreement.
We'll see what happens. I'm meeting with my church pastor again tomorrow. If I get negative feedback from her meeting or hear that she is signing a longer term lease, I am going to deliver the message that I have decided our current arrangement no longer works for me. She has had enough time to sort herself out.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09