Your W's slow pace in moving out says a lot about her mental state. I really think that what you are doing will go a long way toward hitting her in the face with reality.
Keep up the good work, I think there is hope for your situation, and it certainly seems like you are in a good mental state to do what needs to be done.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09