Wow what a full day and you aren't even half way done! It is a bit of a shock when people aren't who you thought but I think this is probably true of so many people.
I hope this confession plays out well for him and for his wife. I especially hope that is has helped you. Hope you get to use the script and gets him thinking.
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory